For many of us, our birthdays are a point of self-reflection and growth. Ashanti’s baby sister, Kenashia Douglas, really opened up in celebration of her 31st birthday.

A couple of days ago, Shi Shi took to Instagram and shared a video highlighting the good, the bad, and the absolutely ugly of her life including a video of her miscarriage and the aftermath of her being brutally beaten to the point of having her teeth knocked out.

The caption on the video read:

Your Story Shapes your purpose

Here’s to 31 ? @wifeofcreation 

Written, Narrated and Directed by me. 

Co director Film editor / Partner @fliphd_life

Watch the video below:

Ashanti also shared the video on Instagram with a message of support for her baby sis:

The next Chapter. My sister is a F**KIN BEAST! One of the most resilient women I’ve been blessed enough to know.

I’m honored to be your older sister..the blood in these veins will NEVER BETRAY. I love you. I’m with you. Always. Happy 31st Birthday. @liltuneshi @wifeofcreation ? @fliphd_life

For years, Kenashia was in a relationship with Slowbucks and the two got engaged in 2016, prompting people to assume he was the one who brutally assaulted her.

50 Cent took to social media to weigh in on the video writing:

?yo what’s wrong wit you boy, hitting that girl like that.?

He included a video of Slowbucks to let everyone know exactly who he was talking about.

It broke my heart to see the shocking footage of Kenashia, but it’s good to know she’s resilient and stronger than ever.

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