True story: My senior year in high school, I had a massive crush on Charlene.
Charlene, however, was sending mixed signals.
So, I decided to take a definitive stand and let her know how I felt.
I had taken chorus for three out of my four years in school, and I thought I had a silky smooth voice. Well⌠maybe not silky or smooth, but I had a voice, dammit!
One night, I called Charlene, ready to lay it all on the line.
I turned up my stereo so she could hear the background music and nervously sang âHere and Nowâ by the one and only Luther Vandross.
After my heartfelt serenade, she responded with, âAww, Brian, thatâs so sweeeet!â
Did it work? Uh, no.
Charlene curved me and chose Monte insteadâa drug dealer/basketball player who slang crack rock and had a wicked jump shot.
But thatâs not the point. The point is that I couldâve chosen any song, but I picked Luther.
Why? Because Luther Vandross is an icon. The quintessential balladeer. Your favorite singerâs favorite singer.
Luther remains in our hearts, and the new documentary, âLuther: Never Too Much,â gives us a glimpse of the man behind the music.
Is this doc as amazing as his catalog, or will it give you a reason to never watch it? Letâs go!

âShe said she wants some Marvin Gaye, some Luther Vandross, a little Anita, and that will set the party off riiiiight.â
âLuther: Never Too Muchâ is a documentary written and directed by Dawn Porter and co-produced by Jamie Foxx.
It delves into Vandrossâ lifeâthe highs, the lows, the road to superstardom, and the pitfalls along the way.
Through candid accounts from some of his closest friends and music industry insiders, the film paints a portrait of a legend who battled inner demons while navigating a profession obsessed with image.
While many biopics and documentaries lean into sensationalism to boost views, Porter takes a different route.
Yes, the film addresses Vandrossâ weight fluctuations, the much-publicized car accident that claimed a life, and even the speculation about his sexuality.
But these topics are handled with care and respect, never veering into tabloid territory.
Instead, the documentary humanizes Luther in a dignified way, offering a balanced and honest look at his life without tarnishing his legacy.
Vandross was more than just a singerâhe was a powerhouse vocalist, songwriter, arranger, and composer.
Old interviews with legends like David Bowie, Roberta Flack, and Dionne Warwick highlight his immense talent.
And letâs not forget his ability to take an original song and cover it with the same finesse that gravy covers rice and steak!
The concert footage in this doc is jaw-dropping.
When Luther belts out classics like âSuperstar/Until You Come Back,â âNever Too Much,â and âIf Only for One Night,â LAWD JESUS!
If those songs donât make you want to marry someoneâor at least renew your vowsâthen yoâ a$$ just ainât livinâ right!
Thereâs triumph and tragedy, especially near the end of the documentary, which might make your eyes âsweat.â
But overall, âLuther: Never Too Muchâ is a beautiful celebration of his life and career.
The only drawback? The car accident.
The documentary touches on it briefly, but I wish it had gone into more detail.
It felt like a missed opportunity to fully explore an important moment in his life.
Aside from that, âLuther: Never Too Muchâ is an incredible tribute to one of the greatest to ever do it.
The documentary is currently in limited (and I mean LIMITED) release.
In 2025, Luther: Never Too Much will premiere on CNN (on New Year’s Day), OWN: Oprah Winfrey Network and Max.
So, promise me this: make time to watch this masterpieceâif only for one night.
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OMG I can’t wait to see this. I ABSOLUTELY LOVE me some Luther Vandross. Super excited for this documentary.
How you describe the documentary makes me excited to see it.
I went to see it the first day it was available in my area (Milwaukee) and it was everything described and more. It’s definitely an in depth love letter to Luther. You described it best when you said it touches on the sensitive topics without the tabloid spin. It’s a must watch for any and all Luther fans.
Love this! Thanks for sharing, Richard! đ¤