Dancer extraordinaire and reality TV personality Andrea Kelly spoke out for the very first time in 10 years about her abusive marriage to troubled R&B superstar R. Kelly.

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If you’re wondering why Drea is speaking out now – she explained:

You have to love somebody enough to tell them ‘enough!’

And I don’t believe my ex-husband has enough people in his life to be real with him, to be honest with him, who care about his healing, who care about these families’ healings and I feel like it’s God’s time. 

Watch below.

In her exclusive interview on TV One’s “Sister Circle” talk show, Drea wept as she recalled the day she envisioned her own suicide was when she knew it was time to end her abusive marriage to the singer.

Watch the heartbreaking moment below.

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