Tamar Braxton Breaks Her Silence On Her Divorce From Vince Herbert: ‘I Have Been Living A Lie’
Tamar Braxton breaks her silence on her divorce from Vince Herbert and says she is done “living a lie.”
Tamar Braxton Opens Up About Her Divorce
Tamar Braxton broke her silence on her divorce from Vince Herbert via social media.
In a lengthy message, posted on her Instagram page, the singer and reality TV star said she has been “living a lie” and stayed married for “face value.”
She went on to allude to Vince being unfaithful with “several girlfriends” and mental abuse.
Read Tamar’s full post below:
Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!. Here is the thing, & MY truth..you don’t have to like me & while I’m woke, I can see that most of you don’t now..even when you did.🤔something has changed w/her..but it’s ok, because I don’t..well, didn’t like me either.
I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together, to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope, faith, Love & dignity that I once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince🤦🏽♀️ ..at least not anymore. Married people who are reading will know what I mean.
Sometimes we stay “married” for face value or to say “we did it” 🙌🏾 but the truth is..it couldn’t be more broken & further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did this, she did that, I put up with “this” & I’ve suffered & endured “this” for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay🙇🏽♀️we get so caught up in WE are “winning” in love that we are LOSING a battle that doesn’t have ANYTHING 2 do with us!
I decided I didn’t want to be married for the sake of saying so.I wanted to have a relationship.Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures, our past, present & future with..& not finding out sh*t online🤦🏽♀️..some of us 🙋🏽have been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared, what’s NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends,or she’s never home,or he’s very general when he speaks,or “this doesn’t sound like him”🤔 or he’s so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?
When is enough enough? Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are “our” friends? Or, we fight but that’s “passion”❌ let’s get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of “your” house when I’m the house of cards? None of this is ok..& while I’m not pushing anyone out of the door..I’m just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time🙏🏽
Wow. I wish Tamar the best.